Nollywood actress Amanda Ebeye gave birth to a baby for a man she's not married to and she was criticised for being a babymama. Amanda took to her Instagram page to write a lengthy rant defending her choice, saying she prefers being a babymam. She said:
To those who put on spiritual black coats and white wigs a.k.a. Judges...... you need to take up a job in the court room. Channel your talent positively or better still please be seated with God on d last day so you can decide who goes in to heaven and who doesn't lol. All I can say is get a life. You're the most unhappy in everything, your marriage, your relationships and that's why you're on social media posting pictures and getting 5 likes and 2 comments. It keeps you going right?? Lol.
You re quick to say God forbid it can't happen to me but d mistakes you've made, what men have done to you. Lawd have mercy !!!!!!!!!! but you remain a sucker for them. You give the name baby mama but I'll rather be one dan be unhappy as you. You live for men, you worship them and feel without them you're dead. I live for my kids, I worship my God and Him alone is allowed to judge, none of us. I'll rather be someone's mother and be single dan be married and unhappy like you. Have to treat infections my wayward husband brings home to me or have to deal with the children he brings home to me to take care of. What a sham. And then I pride myself as happy and I become a judge.
Every time you're crying, asking God why you're still in this marriage but you can't walk out cause of what pple will say. Difference between both of us, I don't care but you do and that's why you'll never be happy. Life is not man man man my dear, if you're not happy cause I know you're not, carry your bag and leave. We still have cool spots in the singles club. Marriage is not by force. Don't go and die before your time foolish woman. Please please Please get a life and stop judging, cause you are no role model.