Dear Eligible Bachelors, 10 reasons why you should consider dating ladies in their 30s (30-38) than ladies in their 20s ( 20-29). The dating game is never constant, it is rather whimsical I.e Dating is a variable which can never be measured, quantified or predicted. But there there some qualifies that we all know are beneficial in relationships.
A lot of these qualities are found in ladies who are matured, know what they want and are financially stable. Fellas, here are some reasons why ladies in their 30s ( 30-38) would make better brides and have more "yards" of wife material than ladies in their 20s ( 20-29).
1️⃣ Ladies in their 30s won't make financial demands on you. There is no ( pay for my cab, pay for my uber, pay for my hair, buy me pizza and cold stone, borrow me 15k ) in their dictionary because ladies of this chronological & mental age are financially secured.
2️⃣ Ladies in their 30s who are single are not interested in being a slay mama, slay queen or Instagram celebrity, they aren't bothered by likes on Instagram, buying expensive hair and shoes & hashtags. They look good for themselves not for the gram. If designers comes yes but they won't "Para" because of designer.
3️⃣ With experience you get better. so Fellas, ladies in their 30s are beasts in the bedroom. They know all the tricks, styles and techniques. The anatomy of mans body is stored in their brain. Unlike some ladies in their 20s that you need to tell them what to do and where to stand. This is obviously not definite but relative & also debatable.
4️⃣ Courtship & "know time" . Hardly would you ever find a lady in her 30s in the club, wasted, standing on the table, vomiting on the floor, fighting because of a man in the club. They have done all these in the past and would rather use their time for dinner, picnics, private trips ✈️,Netflix & chill etc.
5️⃣ If you're a foody & you love proper home cooked meals without koko in the amala, watery egusi, mesh mesh rice ( confused rice) , stone in beans, sand in efo. A lady In her 30s is right for you. She has had a lot of experience in the kitchen and.....
5️⃣ If you're a foody & you love proper home cooked meals without koko in the amala, watery egusi, mesh mesh rice ( confused rice) , stone in beans, sand in efo. A lady In her 30s is right for you. She has had a lot of experience in the kitchen. This is also debatable and relative as a lot of young 20 year olds are great cooks
6️⃣ Building an Empire. A lot of ladies Post Empire goals on social media for fun but they don't know they work and sacrifice behind building an empire with a man. The most important factors in building an empire are sacrifice and compromise which a lot of ladies in their 20s may not be ready to do because they have more men on their case, they are distracted by social media and slaying than ladies in their 30s who are ready and know what they want.
7️⃣ Studies have shown that ladies in their 30 and above are more likely to have twins than younger ladies because they have multiple ovulations in the same menstrual cycle. As women age, their body produces follicles stimulating hormones which can push their ovaries into overdrive making them more likely to have twins.
8️⃣ In my Article : how to identify a wife material. I penned Prayers warriors and ladies who can fast for 40 days as wife materials. Ladies in their 30s are likely to fast for 30 days + than younger ladies because they have experienced life & its heartbreaks.
9️⃣ Ladies in their 30s have a lot of experience in marriage before they get married because of their indirect experiences through friends & family members. So they know how to handle tough situations such as being broke in a marriage & God forbid dealing with a Sidechick.
🔟 Maturity. a lot of ladies these days want to get married for hashtags, makeup, stunting on the gram, competition with friends but only a few have the mental capacity and cognitive frameworks to actually manage a home and cater for a man.
Fellas, TAKE NOTE of these points.