You're married. The rule is two becomes one. As a husband or wife, you have investments, houses built in different places, you have money stashed in various banks.
This your wife/husband doesn't know of the existence of all the above. You're happy right? Gleefully you say to yourself: am so smart! Now, consider this: if you were to drop dead right now, or so ill that you can't talk, who gets to inherit and take care of these things?
Banks get enriched. Strangers cum government inherit your properties. Wicked personal lawyers divert your assets because you gave them instructions: Don't let my wife/husband know that I have these things.
Now, who's the fool? Truly the wisdom of this world is foolishness with God. For it is written, He taketh the wise in their own craftiness - 1 Corinthians 3: 18 - 20. Proverbs 13: 22.
Is it not time, you realize that who you really have is your spouse?
Beloved ones have an amazing week. Peace always in JESUS name.